Sailing Guilt

While towing Tilman to our favourite sailing grounds on Friday, I was being tortured by guilt. I should be parenting, working, cleaning house etc. My ex-wife played no small part in making me feel ashamed of sailing, it's something I feel guilty over letting her get away with.
   Anyway, the Dalai Llama offers me excellent guidance:

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